I realize this might be a tad late in the season to be addressing this but better late than never, right?
Here at the Runningamuck Household, we try to mix it up a bit. Try to swim upstream. Walk to the beat of a different drum. Brace yourselves. It’s a doosie…
We don’t do Christmas gifts.
Now before you wave me off as a Jehovah Witness, we’re NOT! Hubby and I decided when Poppett was a baby that we wanted our Christmas to be all about Jesus. Now, a lot of us have that intention but somehow in all the hustle and bustle of gift planning, purchasing, wrapping and giving, as much as we fight it – Jesus just doesn’t get the attention He deserves. So our Christmas is purely a birthday party for Jesus. We have a special breakfast, we read the Christmas story and we do fun family activities (board games, walks, crafts) during the day. Then we put on a huge, scrumptious dinner for His party, wear party hats, sing happy birthday to Him and blow out candles on our birthday cupcakes. For the first few years we did a birthday cake but then I wizened up. Four munchkins all blowing out candles on the same cake is a recipe chock-full of spit and slobber… all over the cake that you are getting ready to chow down on. Ummm, tasty! So we switched to individual cupcakes… munchkin slobber averted.
But don’t start worrying that our children are deprived because they have no special morning of presents, we DO presents. We celebrate the New Year with a morning of presents, much like the typical Christmas. Celebrating New Years this way also provides a way for extended family members to still give gifts without landing us back where we started…with gifts at Christmas.
I personally love our tradition. Each year I strive to add something else to our Christmas day to make it even more special and to help us focus on our Lord’s birth and His love even more. As the kids get older, we plan on devoting some of the time to the service of others. Like taking dinners over to struggling families or visiting our homeless shelters with goodies to share or warm blankets to pass out. The possibilities are endless and I look forward to a special project each year. Maybe even letting one of the kids choose the outreach activity of their choice each year for the family to do together.
And a side bonus to gifts on New Years? After Christmas sales.
Ssshhhhhh! Ya didn’t hear it from me! =0)
What special Christmas tradition does your family do?




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December 23, 2008 at 11:45 am
allenfive5
So great to hear about your tradition! I love it! Do you still do a tree?
December 24, 2008 at 12:44 pm
grannie of 22
I’m so glad you wrote about it. I love it, too! I’m sure the Lord is especially pleased!
December 27, 2008 at 5:30 am
Heather @ Not a DIY LIfe
I love this idea! I finally came up with a good response when people ask if the little one is ready for Santa. “No, but she is ready for Saint Nicholas. Because Jesus is the best Christmas present ever, we are teaching her that Christmas is about giving gifts to others.” Too bad I thought of this late on Christmas Eve! I’ll have to try to remember this for next year!
December 28, 2008 at 8:37 am
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December 28, 2008 at 8:41 am
runningamuck
Allenfive5, no, we don’t do a tree but we decorate the whole house as usual other than that. Has to do with the origin of the the whole evergreen in the house thing… just like jackolanterns… interesting reading and makes you think twice that’s for sure. Although to be honest, it’s the one thing I still miss. Although I don’t miss the watering… or the forgetting to water as is the case for me! lol.